Modern Marriage with Monica

SHOCKING Reasons Your Wife Isn’t Interested in S*x. Spoiler Alert: It IS Her!!

Are you a married man who's wife doesn't want to have sex with you? Today, we continue our Roadblocks to Sexual Desire Series. The last two episodes we focus on how the "problem" could be from the man's side. Today we turn our focus on reasons having to do with his wife. Specifically, we discuss physical issues such as medicines, medical conditions, seasons of life and menopause.

We discuss how oral contraceptives affect mate selection and the long term ramifications of such. We highlight the prevalence of women on depression meds, specifically SSRI's to treat depression and how it kills the libido.

We discuss options on how to combat these obstacles and how the medical community is very behind in hormone replacement therapy treatment options instead relying on old outside disproven studies as a reason to reject this option.

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EP 21: Are You Physically Turning Her Off? Roadblocks to Desire (Part 2)

In this video we continued the Roadblock to Attractions series. Today, we explore how a man's physical body can enhance or detract his woman's attraction for him. We discuss the need to refer back to his wedding picture as a clue or a reference point to what physically turns her on. Do you look as good, if not better than that day? Or is did you do a physical bait and switch?

Your physical body is a key factor in her attraction for her. It was the very first thing that made her interested in exploring the relationship further.

We also discuss, how women can't choose attraction. It's there or it's not. Also, we discuss how grooming, and odors play an important role for a woman for attraction.

Roadblocks to Desire-How to Get Your Wife to Find You Irresistible Again-Part 1

If you're struggling to keep the passion alive in your marriage, this video will help you navigate roadblocks to desire and get your wife interested again. Don't let divorce be the only option - watch now!

EP 18: 3 Leadership SECRETS all Women NEED for Relationship Happiness

All women want strong male leadership in their relationship. But what does that even look like? It's likely that you have you been getting your advice from other guys. And while that is extremely helpful, I think there's a piece of the puzzle missing... a woman's point of view? And that is what I'm here to help you with today!

This video covers what women want and need from men as a leader in the home. I lay out the three biggest mistakes men make in leadership...and I'll give you a hint-you likely are doing all three.

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EP 19: RELATABLE Dead Bedroom Stories from Reddit. Can It be Fixed?

25 to 50% of today's marriages today are sexless. This is often called a "Dead Bedroom". This leads to a feeling of rejection, frustration, and resentment for many people

Today we have taken some posts from the Reddit community in the Dead Bedroom Subreddit. Follow along as I read some of the posts and offer my thoughts and opinions of what is the possible problem and potential solution.

This is an overwhelming and pervasive problem that we must work on solving together for the sake of our marriages and for the benefit of restoring what was once a vibrant and healthy marriage.

Unlocking Dead Bedroom Secrets | Must-Watch REDDIT stories

Explore real Dead Bedroom Reddit stories in this video. Find out how others have dealt with intimacy struggles in their relationships.

With almost 5000,000 members on Reddit's Dead Bedroom forum, the lack of physical intimacy and the emotional impact it has on a person's sense of self-worth and the relationship as a whole is greater than we ever thought.

I share my thoughts, suggestions, and general sense of what may be going on in these relationships.

Do you need help in your relationship? Email us at monicaalmaguercoaching.com to discuss our coaching options.

CHAPTERS:

00:00 - Intro

00:42 - Boredom in Relationships

05:35 - Temptation and Cheating

09:24 - Confusion in Decision Making

12:26 - Non-Physical Relationships Explained

13:28 - Escaping the Friend Zone

14:04 - Final Thoughts and Reflections

Why Men Place Such Value on Home Cooked Food in Relationships

Unlock his heart and transform your marriage with the secret power of homecooked meals! 🥘 Join me, Monica Almaguer, as I share my personal journey from a career-driven mom who saw cooking as a chore to discovering its profound impact on a happy, successful marriage. Through a life-changing realization, I found that homemade meals can boost your relationship and create deeper intimacy. I'll share actionable tips and my hero system strategy—hard, easy, restaurant, offload—that led to profound improvements in my marriage. Imagine your husband feeling cherished every time he enjoys a meal prepared by you!

Is his happiness important to you? Do you want to set a great example for your children? If you answered yes, get inspired and take actionable steps with me. Let's embark on this journey together! Don't forget to subscribe for more insights on #SuccessfulMarriage, #RelationshipPodcast, and more. Remember, food is never just food—it's an emotional connection that can strengthen your bond. See you in the video! 🌟 #IntimacyBoost #MonicaAlmaguer #MarriageSuccess #EmotionalConnection #HappyCouples

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CHAPTERS:

00:00 - The Way to a Man’s Heart is Through His Stomach

02:05 - The Men’s Triangle of Needs

04:05 - The Epidemic of Women Who Won’t Cook for Their Husbands

09:34 - Overcoming Mental Barriers to Cooking

11:32 - Tips for Easier Cooking

14:52 - Benefits of Cooking for Your Husband

Ep 15: Stroke THIS..it’s NOT what you think! What Married Men Get at Work but not at Home.

Last week, we explored praise, appreciation, and gratitude. Now, I'm sharing actionable tips and tools to balance praise and criticism effectively.

In my personal journey, I've noticed how easy it is to focus on the negatives, especially with my kids and husband. But here's the secret: Your compliment-to-complaint ratio needs to be right! Aim for a 10-to-1 ratio of positive to negative comments. Praise effort, not just outcomes, and never discount the small things, even if they're "just his job."

Join me as we uncover how boosting your relationship with deeper intimacy and profound improvements is possible. I'll share practical tips, like using comparison effectively and turning complaints into opportunities to stroke his ego. Let's ensure your husband feels like the man he is! 💪

Get inspired, take actionable steps, and let's transform your marriage together. Watch now and subscribe to join this empowering journey! 💖

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CHAPTERS:

00:00 - Intro

00:20 - Compliment to Complaint Ratio

01:55 - Praise the Effort Not the Outcome

04:05 - Don’t Discount the Mundane

05:01 - Encourage Positive Behavior

06:22 - Stroke His Ego

10:02 - Effective Comparison Techniques

13:44 - Communication Strategies for Success

15:34 - Conclusion