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A couple of years ago, when I went searching for specific tips, tools and tricks to help me level up my marriage. I read books, I searched the internet, I watch YouTube...But the information I found was...shall I say...lacking! The information also was not particularly relevant to the unique challenges of today’s modern marriages with both people juggling the pressures of working outside the home, living up to societal pressures of those ”perfect” homes, bodies, and all other kinds of expectations that comes from social media. And speaking of social media, what about all the ”temptations”, instant access and just overall problems that come along with it. What was out there tended to be fluffy statements like ”be more loving” or ”communicate more”, or the God-awful advice of ”Never go to bed angry”-like anybody can solve anything when they are exhausted... No wonder the divorce rate is where it’s at! I’m the kind of person who needs specifics. Tell me exactly what to do! but there was nothing out there, so I created my own tips, tools and tricks. But the question I’m sure you are all wondering is...Did it work? And to that, I would say. YES! Not only did my techniques work... they also worked fast! Now I am taking my journey, those lessons, and am here to help marriages and relationships, not only survive, but to thrive. If you are married, ever wanted to be, or just want the absolutely best relationship possible. This is the podcast for you!
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Wednesday Oct 30, 2024
Wednesday Oct 30, 2024
Men often will rejected their wife's offer for duty sex due to feeling like it's just another chore, something to cross off her "to do" list, taking it as a lack of physical attraction and desire for him, leading to a cascade of problems in their marriage.
This video covers why duty sex shouldn't be considered pity sex. How it's not a rejection of the man, rather a sacrificial offering of love that a woman can offer in that particular moment.
We also explore the ramifications of rejecting her offer and the awful consequences to the long term marriage success such as resentment, emotional distancing, addictions, and being susceptibility to affairs.
We also highlight the benefits of accepting her offer including:
1. Physical needs met
2. Good mood
3 Getting her warmed up for later
4. The opportunity to reenforce her positive behavior
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