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A couple of years ago, when I went searching for specific tips, tools and tricks to help me level up my marriage. I read books, I searched the internet, I watch YouTube...But the information I found was...shall I say...lacking! The information also was not particularly relevant to the unique challenges of today’s modern marriages with both people juggling the pressures of working outside the home, living up to societal pressures of those ”perfect” homes, bodies, and all other kinds of expectations that comes from social media. And speaking of social media, what about all the ”temptations”, instant access and just overall problems that come along with it. What was out there tended to be fluffy statements like ”be more loving” or ”communicate more”, or the God-awful advice of ”Never go to bed angry”-like anybody can solve anything when they are exhausted... No wonder the divorce rate is where it’s at! I’m the kind of person who needs specifics. Tell me exactly what to do! but there was nothing out there, so I created my own tips, tools and tricks. But the question I’m sure you are all wondering is...Did it work? And to that, I would say. YES! Not only did my techniques work... they also worked fast! Now I am taking my journey, those lessons, and am here to help marriages and relationships, not only survive, but to thrive. If you are married, ever wanted to be, or just want the absolutely best relationship possible. This is the podcast for you!
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7 days ago
7 days ago
In this powerful episode, Monica Almaguer sits down with Ralph from Dad Starting Over and HelpForMen.com to dive deep into the topic of "dead bedroom" struggles in relationships. Ralph, author of the bestselling book The Dead Bedroom Fix, shares his personal journey from divorce to rebuilding his life and offers practical advice for men facing intimacy issues in marriage. From tackling low libido and menopause to navigating modern relationship dynamics, this conversation is packed with insights for both men and women.
Key Topics Covered:
What is a "dead bedroom" and why it’s a universal issue
Ralph’s story: From divorce to writing The Dead Bedroom Fix
How to address intimacy problems in long-term monogamy
The impact of menopause on relationships and solutions like hormone replacement therapy
Tips for men: Stop chasing and start focusing on yourself
Modern marriage challenges and the importance of intentionality
Bonus: Ralph’s coaching and the Brotherhood men’s group
Resources Mentioned: Helpformen.com
Visit HelpForMen.com for Ralph’s coaching, men’s group (The Brotherhood), and free resources
Check out The Dead Bedroom Fix book (available on Amazon)
Follow Ralph on YouTube
https://www.youtube.com/@DadStartingOver
Timestamps:
00:00 – Introduction to Ralph and the Dead Bedroom Topic
03:14 – Ralph’s Journey: From Blog to Bestseller
07:08 – Why Dead Bedrooms Resonate Globally
14:34 – Ralph’s Post-Divorce Dating and Remarriage Lessons
24:46 – Menopause and Its Impact on Intimacy
32:26 – Duty Sex vs. Desire: A Realistic Look
51:43 – First Steps to Fix a Dead Bedroom
56:29 – When She Wants More: Low Male Libido Explained
01:08:35 – Where to Find Ralph’s Work
Keywords: dead bedroom, dead bedroom fix, marriage intimacy issues, low libido in marriage, menopause and relationships, hormone replacement therapy, modern marriage advice, Ralph Dad Starting Over, Help For Men, men’s coaching, Brotherhood men’s group, relationship tips for men, Monica Almaguer's podcast
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3. Ability to ask Questions Directly
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