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A couple of years ago, when I went searching for specific tips, tools and tricks to help me level up my marriage. I read books, I searched the internet, I watch YouTube...But the information I found was...shall I say...lacking! The information also was not particularly relevant to the unique challenges of today’s modern marriages with both people juggling the pressures of working outside the home, living up to societal pressures of those ”perfect” homes, bodies, and all other kinds of expectations that comes from social media. And speaking of social media, what about all the ”temptations”, instant access and just overall problems that come along with it. What was out there tended to be fluffy statements like ”be more loving” or ”communicate more”, or the God-awful advice of ”Never go to bed angry”-like anybody can solve anything when they are exhausted... No wonder the divorce rate is where it’s at! I’m the kind of person who needs specifics. Tell me exactly what to do! but there was nothing out there, so I created my own tips, tools and tricks. But the question I’m sure you are all wondering is...Did it work? And to that, I would say. YES! Not only did my techniques work... they also worked fast! Now I am taking my journey, those lessons, and am here to help marriages and relationships, not only survive, but to thrive. If you are married, ever wanted to be, or just want the absolutely best relationship possible. This is the podcast for you!
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Sunday May 04, 2025
8 Characteristics of ”Unframed” Men that Kills Her Sexual Attraction: Part 1
Sunday May 04, 2025
Sunday May 04, 2025
Unlock the secret to sustaining long-term sexual attraction in your marriage by mastering the concept of masculine frame. In this in-depth video, we explore the critical role that a strong masculine frame plays in fostering a healthy, passionate relationship dynamic. Learn what it means to operate with mental strength and fortitude, why this is essential for maintaining respect and attraction, and how losing your frame can lead to a female-led marriage and a dead bedroom.
We cover the first four characteristics of unframed men—seeking validation, lacking boundaries, acting childish, and being a "yes man"—and provide actionable insights on how to avoid these pitfalls. These behaviors can erode your wife’s respect and attraction, leading to a reversed polarity dynamic that undermines intimacy. This video is Part 1 of a two-part series, so make sure to subscribe and hit the notification bell to catch Part 2, where we’ll discuss the remaining four characteristics.
For men looking to reignite passion and fix a dead bedroom, this video is a must-watch. The discussion draws from real-world examples, like the importance of standing firm in your convictions (e.g., navigating tough decisions despite pushback) and the cultural reference to George McFly from Back to the Future to illustrate the consequences of weak boundaries.
We also address how to correct a female-led dynamic by calmly asserting leadership and selling your wife on the benefits of a masculine-led relationship, reducing her stress and fostering her femininity. This content is a preview of my upcoming course, designed to help men create and maintain long-term sexual attraction in their marriages.
Don’t miss out on practical strategies to strengthen your mental frame, establish boundaries, and reclaim your role as a confident leader in your marriage. Comment below with your thoughts: Which unframed behavior do you find most challenging, and how are you working to overcome it? Like and share this video with others who could benefit from these insights.
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Keywords: masculine frame, sexual attraction, dead bedroom, marriage advice, relationship polarity, mental strength, masculine energy, female-led marriage, relationship dynamics, attraction in marriage, how to be a strong man, marriage intimacy, men’s coaching, healthy marriage, relationship leadership.
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