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A couple of years ago, when I went searching for specific tips, tools and tricks to help me level up my marriage. I read books, I searched the internet, I watch YouTube...But the information I found was...shall I say...lacking! The information also was not particularly relevant to the unique challenges of today’s modern marriages with both people juggling the pressures of working outside the home, living up to societal pressures of those ”perfect” homes, bodies, and all other kinds of expectations that comes from social media. And speaking of social media, what about all the ”temptations”, instant access and just overall problems that come along with it. What was out there tended to be fluffy statements like ”be more loving” or ”communicate more”, or the God-awful advice of ”Never go to bed angry”-like anybody can solve anything when they are exhausted... No wonder the divorce rate is where it’s at! I’m the kind of person who needs specifics. Tell me exactly what to do! but there was nothing out there, so I created my own tips, tools and tricks. But the question I’m sure you are all wondering is...Did it work? And to that, I would say. YES! Not only did my techniques work... they also worked fast! Now I am taking my journey, those lessons, and am here to help marriages and relationships, not only survive, but to thrive. If you are married, ever wanted to be, or just want the absolutely best relationship possible. This is the podcast for you!
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4 days ago
4 days ago
Join us for an insightful and transformative episode of the podcast where I’m thrilled to be joined by Karyn Seitz, the creator of the Happy Wife School YouTube channel.
Both of our channels share a mission to empower women to cultivate their own happiness and help men navigate the complexities of modern relationships.
In this engaging conversation, we explore critical topics like why women often resist taking personal responsibility, the underlying issues affecting today’s marriages, and practical strategies to create a stronger, happier partnership.
Whether you’re a man seeking to understand your wife better or a woman looking to improve your marriage, this episode offers valuable insights to help you build a better relationship.
Karen opens up about her personal journey, sharing how a decade ago, a pivotal "red pill" moment with her mentor, David, helped her realize she was the source of her own unhappiness. Karen’s path led her to confront her role in her marriage’s challenges.
We discuss how her shift toward personal accountability transformed her relationship with her husband, proving that one partner’s growth can radically improve a marriage without requiring change from the other. Together, we unpack the societal shifts impacting modern marriages, debunk myths like “all women are gold diggers,” and explain why marriage remains a powerful tool for personal growth and self-improvement.
Key Topics Covered:
Why women struggle with accountability and how to break free from the “camp victim” mindset that blames others for personal unhappiness.
The historical context of marriage challenges, from the 1950s to today, and why the 50% divorce rate reflects deeper issues of entitlement and lack of intentionality.
How men can set healthy boundaries, rebuild confidence, and navigate their wife’s emotional challenges without losing themselves.
The role of intimacy in marriage, addressing why women may disengage and how prioritizing connection can transform relationships.
Karen’s framework for women: embracing the idea that “I am the problem” to become the solution, fostering emotional intelligence and personal growth.
Why Watch This Episode?
This episode is a must-watch for anyone seeking to improve their marriage or understand their partner on a deeper level. Karen and I share practical, actionable strategies grounded in real-life experience to help you overcome common marital challenges. From addressing the emotional differences between men and women to debunking harmful stereotypes, we provide a roadmap for creating a healthier, more fulfilling relationship. With divorce rates at 50% and societal pressures reshaping traditional roles, our discussion highlights why marriage is still worth it and how intentionality can lead to profound personal and relational growth.
Connect with Karyn Seitz:
YouTube: The Happy Wife School https://www.youtube.com/@thehappywifeschool(
Website: HappyWifeSchool.com (enroll in her Happiness Program to cultivate self-worth or the Happy Wife Program to address emotional challenges in marriage; men can explore courses on healing from emasculation and setting constructive boundaries)
Podcast: Listen to The Happy Wife School on Spotify and Apple Podcasts
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How to Create and Maintain Long-Term Sexual Attraction Course: Learn the six pillars of attraction, how women tick, and how to reignite your marriage—without her even needing to know. Click below for details
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Thursday May 29, 2025
Thursday May 29, 2025
Thanks for joining our exclusive live broadcast. Where we will go over the 6 Pillars to Long Term Sexual Attraction. This is a surface level mini bootcamp for my new course How to Create and Maintain Long Term Sexual Attraction.
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Tuesday May 20, 2025
Tuesday May 20, 2025
Discover how I grew my YouTube channel, Modern Marriage with Monica, to 50,000 subscribers in just one year and how I got monetized in just 6 weeks!
Learn the exact strategies, equipment, and editing tips that helped me succeed, plus behind-the-scenes insights on creating viral content (like my clip with 300,000+ views) that resonated with men seeking better marriages.
Want to start your own YouTube channel? Learn from my mistakes and successes to fast-track your growth.
What You’ll Learn:
How I found my niche in marriage content and filled a gap in the market
The power of bite-sized video clips (1-4 minutes) for explosive growth
My editing process using CapCut Pro and Opus Clips for shorts
Essential equipment upgrades (like the Rode PodMic) that made a difference
How to create click-worthy thumbnails and search-optimized descriptions using AI tools like Grok & Chat GPT
Why responding to every comment boosted my channel’s growth
The reality of YouTube earnings and how to optimize mid-roll ads
Why I Started: As a wife, I transformed my own marriage and wanted to share specific, actionable strategies to help others thrive—not just survive—in their relationships. My mission is to advocate for men and provide practical advice for navigating marriage challenges.
Check out the viral clip that skyrocketed my channel: https://youtu.be/rkHs6bkongM
Tools I Use:
Microphone: Rode PodMic on Amazon: https://amzn.to/4mHHY4n
Microphone Rode Arm: https://amzn.to/4jilnZ3
Editing Software: CapCut Pro
Clips Generator: Opus Clips: https://www.opus.pro/?via=dc0c97
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Benefits such as:
1. Early access to videos
2. Free access to Marriage Meter: A Quick & Easy Way to Assess Your Marriage Health
3. Ability to ask Questions Directly
Contact Monica:
Interested in Coaching? Send me an email at MonicaAlmaguerCoaching@gmail.com.
Have a Question? Send us an email to ChilatMedia@gmail.com and We May Just Answer it in one of our videos!
How to Create and Maintain Long-Term Sexual Attraction Course: Learn the six pillars of attraction, how women tick, and how to reignite your marriage—without her even needing to know. Click below for details
https://www.smokinghotmarriage.com/sltacoursebundle
Socials:
https://www.instagram.com/modernmarriagewithmonica
https://www.facebook.com/MonicaAlmaguerPodcast
https://open.spotify.com/show/3U91DRFsdIsReiou3hMA26
Timestamps:
0:00 Intro: My YouTube Journey
2:15 Finding My Niche & Going Viral
5:40 How I Got Monetized in 6 Weeks
8:20 Editing Tips & Bite-Sized Content Strategy
12:10 My Equipment & Tech Mistakes
15:30 Thumbnails & Descriptions for Growth
18:45 How Much I Earned on YouTube
21:00 Why I Keep Going & Final Tips
Saturday May 17, 2025
Saturday May 17, 2025
In this engaging podcast episode, we sit down with Rich Cooper, a prominent figure in the manosphere, known for his YouTube channel Entrepreneurs in Cars with over 700,000 subscribers and a strong presence on X with 217,000 followers. Rich shares his journey from business-focused content to addressing men’s relationship challenges, drawing from his personal experiences, including his 2011 divorce and subsequent insights into modern relationships.
We dive deep into critical topics for men facing marital struggles, particularly around "dead bedrooms" and lack of intimacy. Rich discusses the pitfalls of conventional relationship advice, the impact of family law, and why modern marriage often fails men, citing stark statistics like 50% divorce rates and low marital bliss after eight years. He explores concepts like hypergamy, the importance of prenups, and the need for men to maintain value and frame in relationships to sustain attraction.
Rich also addresses feminism’s role in shifting relationship dynamics, the importance of vetting women using his 21 red flags (available for free at entrepreneursincars.com/red-flags), and why men must continue to "level up" to remain their partner’s best option.
From navigating competition anxiety to avoiding common mistakes like losing frame or allowing risky behaviors, Rich offers practical advice for men seeking better outcomes in love and life.
Whether you're married, dating, or single, this episode is packed with reality-based insights to help men understand female nature, avoid pitfalls, and build stronger relationships.
Information About Rich Cooper:
Grab Rich’s book The Unplugged Alpha on Amazon
Website: richcooper.ca for more resources
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Benefits such as:
1. Early access to videos
2. Free access to Marriage Meter: A Quick & Easy Way to Assess Your Marriage Health
3. Ability to ask Questions Directly
Contact Monica:
Interested in Coaching? Send me an email at MonicaAlmaguerCoaching@gmail.com.
Have a Question? Send us an email to ChilatMedia@gmail.com and We May Just Answer it in one of our videos!
How to Create and Maintain Long-Term Sexual Attraction Course: Learn the six pillars of attraction, how women tick, and how to reignite your marriage—without her even needing to know. Click below for details
https://www.smokinghotmarriage.com/sltacoursebundle
Socials:
https://www.instagram.com/modernmarriagewithmonica
Friday May 09, 2025
Friday May 09, 2025
In this compelling episode, we sit down with Gift Lasta, a renowned masculinity coach and author, to explore the complexities of modern marriage and masculinity.
Giff, who has helped over 50 men transform their relationships through his Reforge Marriage program, shares his personal journey from overcoming struggles with pornography and marital disconnect to building a thriving marriage.
Drawing from his new book, The Way of Men with Maids: Forgotten Christian Wisdom for Becoming a Man Who Wins at Love, we dive deep into critical topics like maintaining long-term attraction, mastering sexual self-discipline, and understanding the concept of "frame"—the structure of confidence and leadership that allows men to create a safe and appealing space for their partners.
Giff also discusses the male drive for status and conquest, the pitfalls of failing "frame tests," and the importance of proactive leadership in reducing a partner’s mental load. Whether you're a man looking to strengthen your marriage, a woman seeking insight into masculine dynamics, or simply interested in personal growth, this conversation offers practical, strategic advice grounded in real-world experience.
Purchase Gift’s book on Amazon Here: https://a.co/d/4Q2xATX
Follow him on X @giflosta for daily wisdom on masculinity and relationships.
Join Monica's Free (Free to the 1st 100 Members) Community "Understanding Women" Here: https://www.skool.com/understanding-women-4317/about?ref=ef239ca470a34e648243770616f65c73
Benefits such as:
1. Early access to videos
2. Free access to Marriage Meter: A Quick & Easy Way to Assess Your Marriage Health
3. Ability to ask Questions Directly
Contact Monica:
Interested in Coaching? Send me an email at MonicaAlmaguerCoaching@gmail.com.
Have a Question? Send us an email to ChilatMedia@gmail.com and We May Just Answer it in one of our videos!
How to Create and Maintain Long-Term Sexual Attraction Course: Learn the six pillars of attraction, how women tick, and how to reignite your marriage—without her even needing to know. Click below for details
https://www.smokinghotmarriage.com/sltacoursebundle
Socials:
https://www.instagram.com/modernmarriagewithmonica
https://www.facebook.com/MonicaAlmaguerPodcast
https://open.spotify.com/show/3U91DRFsdIsReiou3hMA26
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Wednesday May 07, 2025
Monday May 05, 2025
Monday May 05, 2025
Welcome back to the second part of our two part series on the Eight Characteristics of Unframed Men. In this episode, we wrap up the discussion by exploring characteristics 5 through 8, diving deep into what it means to lack frame and how it impacts your life, relationships, and personal growth.
Building on last week’s insights—where we defined frame, its importance, and covered the first four characteristics—this video tackles the remaining traits with practical advice and real-world examples.
Here’s what we cover:
Characteristic #5: Making Excuses or Blaming Others – We discuss why a lack of accountability is a feminine trait and how men who dodge responsibility sabotage their growth. Learn why taking ownership, even when it’s tough, is essential for building a strong frame.
Characteristic #6: Getting Defensive – Discover the importance of humility in relationships. We explore how defensiveness blocks constructive feedback, especially from your spouse, and how embracing humility can strengthen your marriage.
Characteristic #7: Asking Stupid Questions – From “Where’s the ketchup?” to “What’s there to eat?”, we break down why these seemingly small questions undermine your competence and respect in the eyes of your partner. Get practical tips on taking initiative and owning your household.
Characteristic #8: Ignoring Problems – We address the trend of younger generations opting out of reality through distractions like video games, weed, or pornography. Learn how facing life’s challenges head-on is a cornerstone of becoming a framed man.
This episode is packed with actionable insights for men who want to step up as leaders in their homes and lives. We also touch on cultural observations, like the societal tendency to rescue women but expect men to fend for themselves, and how this shapes accountability. Plus, we share a lighthearted yet pointed perspective on small habits that erode respect in relationships and how to fix them.
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Interested in Coaching? Send me an email at MonicaAlmaguerCoaching@gmail.com.
Have a Question? Send us an email to ChilatMedia@gmail.com and We May Just Answer it in one of our videos!
How to Create and Maintain Long-Term Sexual Attraction Course: Learn the six pillars of attraction, how women tick, and how to reignite your marriage—without her even needing to know. Click below for details
https://www.smokinghotmarriage.com/sltacoursebundle
Keywords: unframed men, male accountability, building frame, masculinity, relationship advice, personal responsibility, humility in marriage, leadership in relationships, men’s self-improvement, marriage tips for men, overcoming excuses, male leadership, personal growth for men
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Sunday May 04, 2025
Sunday May 04, 2025
Unlock the secret to sustaining long-term sexual attraction in your marriage by mastering the concept of masculine frame. In this in-depth video, we explore the critical role that a strong masculine frame plays in fostering a healthy, passionate relationship dynamic. Learn what it means to operate with mental strength and fortitude, why this is essential for maintaining respect and attraction, and how losing your frame can lead to a female-led marriage and a dead bedroom.
We cover the first four characteristics of unframed men—seeking validation, lacking boundaries, acting childish, and being a "yes man"—and provide actionable insights on how to avoid these pitfalls. These behaviors can erode your wife’s respect and attraction, leading to a reversed polarity dynamic that undermines intimacy. This video is Part 1 of a two-part series, so make sure to subscribe and hit the notification bell to catch Part 2, where we’ll discuss the remaining four characteristics.
For men looking to reignite passion and fix a dead bedroom, this video is a must-watch. The discussion draws from real-world examples, like the importance of standing firm in your convictions (e.g., navigating tough decisions despite pushback) and the cultural reference to George McFly from Back to the Future to illustrate the consequences of weak boundaries.
We also address how to correct a female-led dynamic by calmly asserting leadership and selling your wife on the benefits of a masculine-led relationship, reducing her stress and fostering her femininity. This content is a preview of my upcoming course, designed to help men create and maintain long-term sexual attraction in their marriages.
Don’t miss out on practical strategies to strengthen your mental frame, establish boundaries, and reclaim your role as a confident leader in your marriage. Comment below with your thoughts: Which unframed behavior do you find most challenging, and how are you working to overcome it? Like and share this video with others who could benefit from these insights.
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2. Free access to Marriage Meter: A Quick & Easy Way to Assess Your Marriage Health
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Contact Monica:
Interested in Coaching? Send me an email at MonicaAlmaguerCoaching@gmail.com.
Have a Question? Send us an email to ChilatMedia@gmail.com and We May Just Answer it in one of our videos!
How to Create and Maintain Long-Term Sexual Attraction Course: Learn the six pillars of attraction, how women tick, and how to reignite your marriage—without her even needing to know. Click below for details
https://www.smokinghotmarriage.com/sltacoursebundle
Socials:
https://www.instagram.com/modernmarriagewithmonica
https://www.facebook.com/MonicaAlmaguerPodcast
https://open.spotify.com/show/3U91DRFsdIsReiou3hMA26
Keywords: masculine frame, sexual attraction, dead bedroom, marriage advice, relationship polarity, mental strength, masculine energy, female-led marriage, relationship dynamics, attraction in marriage, how to be a strong man, marriage intimacy, men’s coaching, healthy marriage, relationship leadership.