The Marriage Money & Mindset Podcast

My $10,000 Mistake! 5 Expensive Life Lessons I Learned Playing This Game of Life

Life can be difficult but even in those tough times there's valuable lessons that can be learned. In this episode we explore 5 life lessons I learned by playing a treasure hunt type of radio station contest for the last seven years including one big mistake that cost me the $10,000 prize.

Stick around for these motivating, inspiring and funny stories of my rock hunting adventures and how the lessons I learned translated into lessons I was able to apply to the game of life.

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Say Yes to Duty Sex! Why Men Should ALWAYS accept His Wife’s Offer

Men often will rejected their wife's offer for duty sex due to feeling like it's just another chore, something to cross off her "to do" list, taking it as a lack of physical attraction and desire for him, leading to a cascade of problems in their marriage.

This video covers why duty sex shouldn't be considered pity sex. How it's not a rejection of the man, rather a sacrificial offering of love that a woman can offer in that particular moment.

We also explore the ramifications of rejecting her offer and the awful consequences to the long term marriage success such as resentment, emotional distancing, addictions, and being susceptibility to affairs.

We also highlight the benefits of accepting her offer including:

1. Physical needs met

2. Good mood

3 Getting her warmed up for later

4. The opportunity to reenforce her positive behavior

5 Emotional Reasons Your Wife Doesn’t Want Sex

We wrap up our Roadblocks to Sexual Desire today with exploring what emotional influences may be coming into play from the woman's point of view that can be hindering her desire for intimacy.

Sexual Rejection: #1 Reason Why She Won’t Sleep with You

Today we continue our Roadblocks to Sexual Desire Series. While we've previously discussed potential physical obstacles with both the man and the woman. We start by jumping into detail what I believe is the #1 cause of women rejecting their husband's sexual advances.

In this video we are diving into potential emotional problems with the man. Specifically what behaviors or actions is the man doing or not doing that will turn her off leading thereby causing her to be turned off and reject his sexual advances.

We start by discussing the proper male/female dynamic. How when this goes astray and gets reversed this will force her into a masculine role in the relationship. This reversed leadership dynamic leads to chaos and problems. We then continue with the importance of non-sexual physical touch. Discussing why most men touch only when they want things to lead to intimacy and how you should touch her often with non-sexual intent.

We continue with the importance of being proactive and not allowing the busyness and stress of life to cause you to slip into complacency with the relationship, where you stop doing those actions and behaviors that worked in the past.

We also discuss the need for a woman to feel seen and heard to invoke that emotional connection and to prevent resentment, along with the biggest obstacle to this.

Need help in your relationship? Reach out to Monica at monicaalmaguercoachig@gmail.com for options.

I’m SHOOK! A Proverbs 31 Wife Isn’t What I thought!

What is a Godly wife? In this video we examine the one of the most popular Proverbs. 31:10. We examine in detail this entire chapter to get a better insight into the qualities and attributes of a good wife. And the findings just may surprise you, as it did me.

For instance, we often think a Godly wife solely stays at home with the children and doesn't have a job outside of caretaking children. However, we discover that not only does she do the homecare, but she is also an entrepreneur, and businesswoman.

This goes against the narrative that women in the past were oppressed and had to depend upon a man for survival. We see she made her own money and owned land and sold her goods at the market.

She is also a kind hearted woman, generous and keeps busy! Her efforts and behavior speak for themself and her and her husband's reputation is good because of it.

SHOCKING Reasons Your Wife Isn’t Interested in S*x. Spoiler Alert: It IS Her!!

Are you a married man who's wife doesn't want to have sex with you? Today, we continue our Roadblocks to Sexual Desire Series. The last two episodes we focus on how the "problem" could be from the man's side. Today we turn our focus on reasons having to do with his wife. Specifically, we discuss physical issues such as medicines, medical conditions, seasons of life and menopause.

We discuss how oral contraceptives affect mate selection and the long term ramifications of such. We highlight the prevalence of women on depression meds, specifically SSRI's to treat depression and how it kills the libido.

We discuss options on how to combat these obstacles and how the medical community is very behind in hormone replacement therapy treatment options instead relying on old outside disproven studies as a reason to reject this option.

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EP 21: Are You Physically Turning Her Off? Roadblocks to Desire (Part 2)

In this video we continued the Roadblock to Attractions series. Today, we explore how a man's physical body can enhance or detract his woman's attraction for him. We discuss the need to refer back to his wedding picture as a clue or a reference point to what physically turns her on. Do you look as good, if not better than that day? Or is did you do a physical bait and switch?

Your physical body is a key factor in her attraction for her. It was the very first thing that made her interested in exploring the relationship further.

We also discuss, how women can't choose attraction. It's there or it's not. Also, we discuss how grooming, and odors play an important role for a woman for attraction.

Roadblocks to Desire-How to Get Your Wife to Find You Irresistible Again-Part 1

If you're struggling to keep the passion alive in your marriage, this video will help you navigate roadblocks to desire and get your wife interested again. Don't let divorce be the only option - watch now!